Huckaby's ex-husband says he's shocked by murder charge.
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The ex-husband of the Tracy woman charged with murdering and raping an 8-year-old girl said today he was in "shock and complete disbelief" when his ex-wife was arrested for such a heinous crime.

John Huckaby told ABC's "Good Morning America" that he knew his ex-wife, Melissa Huckaby, as a carefree, nonviolent person, someone he "could not see doing something like this."

John and Melissa Huckaby were married in 2003 and separated a year later. The couple divorced in 2005. John Huckaby said he hasn't talked to his former wife for more than three years.

Melissa Huckaby, 28, was charged Tuesday with murdering Sandra Cantu, whose body was found in a suitcase pulled from an irrigation pond 10 days after she went missing. Prosecutors added to the charge the special circumstances of rape with a foreign object, lewd or lascivious conduct with a child under 14 and murder in the course of a kidnapping.

Huckaby has not entered a plea. Her next court appearance is April 24.

"My initial reaction was shock and complete disbelief," John Huckaby told the ABC program. "It's not something you want to think anyone possibly (is capable) of doing — let alone somebody that you knew and that's a mother of your child."

John Huckaby said their 5-year-old daughter, Madison, is in a "safe place" and doesn't know anything about the case.

Melissa Huckaby was awarded sole custody of Madison after the couple's divorce. In divorce papers, Melissa Huckaby accuses John Huckaby of child abduction, domestic violence and alcohol abuse. John Huckaby denies the allegations.

John Huckaby said Melissa Huckaby suffered from depression but was not a violent person.

He also said he hopes the allegations aren't true.

"Mainly for my daughter," he said. "I do not want my daughter growing up with that type of legacy to look forward to."
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heartofhearts
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April 21, 2009
my prayers are with sandras family
zupermomx4
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April 21, 2009
to SadAndDismayed Wake Up ;

all this news and you still think is no her come on she did it and she is a monster i do not know her but she is not going to show how evil she is i really dont think she got rape i think they are just making it up so we could feel sorry for her but i know that if she gets out she wont last on the streets

gold_sartor
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April 21, 2009
Althouth I am not from your area, I want to send all of your beautuiful community; angels and a prayer.

My praytes are not endiing for the family of beautiful Sandra, what pain they must suffer!! The rest of us feel so helpless to help and ease their pain. Lives have been changed and what path they will take now is never known. Please stand by them and offer them all the help you can. When you cook, make a litte extra and send it over, daily functional activitys may seemm natural to us, but are so very difficult for them. Don't end your prayers for them, pray for them, without ceasing. God will provide for them. We all are so shocked and stunned by this, some of us never met that family, and we feel the agony of the loss of the child, can you imagine the shock they endure??

Sad has said that the child was not being watched!!! Sorry bout ya sad, but as a mom and Grandma WE cannot watch our babys 24 hours and let them grow up to be normal healthy adults!! We teach them, we love them, WE DO WATCH them and hope we have given them what they need. We do not expect a neighbor or anyone in our own front yard to harm our babys or to be such a monster, especially under these conditions in which the children were so close!!!!

How dare any of us to jusge this family!! They were attacked by an evil monster that came from the pits of evil. They had no defence and neither would you had that monster chosen your child!!

May our Father show you mercy and love, to the family and to your wonderful city.

Trisha
2tearsinabucket
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April 20, 2009
why is he so SHOCKED! BS!...why did he divorce her then? Why is he not having his daughter on the weekends? Why did he not want anything to do with that monster? He knows she was sick in the head and he did not worry about his daughter. He does not impress me. He is not telling us the whole truth cause it will make him look bad and the media will eat him up.

I am SHOCKED that I have not heard where his daughter is at and if they took her to get examined. The lawless family is acting dumbfounded..they know better...they just rather pray and let God deal with their family issues. Meantime their EVIL daughter/granddaughter turns into a monster and kills an angel.
TEXASCANTU
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April 20, 2009
very well put gypsy
gypsy_green_eyes
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April 20, 2009
Dear Sad......YOU ARE SAD.....

Do you not know she already admitted to it???? I guess IGNORANCE REALLY "IS" BLISS!!! People like you are too blind I guess to consider the fact that child molesters are addicts they know it's sick and illegal to do what they are doing so they will find ways to do these demented things while leaving no one to be suspicious. They are sick but not stupid. I guess you and your sources are fooled by the whole woman sunday school teacher act. How dare she use God to do these things to children!!!!! Children are Gods most precious gift to us and to abuse that gift is like spitting in Gods face. And for you to place blame on her mother, think about the fact that this poor woman is going to live with the fact that she trusted this woman around her little girl for the rest of her life. She is being punished enough without people speaking on her as a bad mother. I didn't see one video or photo of that baby not having a smile on her face or looking like a very happy little girl. So maybe you should find some more realiable sources before you open that gutter trap you call a mouth!!!!!
TEXASCANTU
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April 19, 2009
WOW there are some real uneducated on here ,like i had said before ,the ignoranced of the unexperienced.OKlets start with the friend of a friend of the KILLER MH WHO TOOK MY FAMILYS SANDRA AWAY FROM US.You know alot of people thought charles mansion was nice too.Evidently your just on here to rowel up people ,so your ignorance is truly noted.You comment about her daughter being very beautiful so many times ,so this leads me to believe your a child stalker and to me you fall into the same catagory as melissa.So let me throw this in the mix so mh putting sweet ,little, sandra,no hang on let me say it the way i herd it "she stuffed little sandra into a suitcase and threw her into a pond like a piece of trash!"HOW DOES THAT SOUND?so you dont think she did it huh,again ,ignorant,she admitted to it on recording.SANDRA WAS MY NEICE!!!And people like you ,dimwitted,uneducated ,sorry excuse for a woman.Is what makes me glad there is a death penalty.Like they say birds of a feather flock together.Kinda makes me wonder about you...And for bad attitude you dont even know what this is about,this isnt about free speech,this is about our poor little sweet sandra who had her life shorten due to a female monster who is now being held and charged for MURDER,RAPE,AND KIDNAPPING.SHE IS TRYING TO AVOID THE DEATH PENALITY BY GETTING THE RAPE CHARGED DROPPED.Let me guess your a bleeding heart lyberal.I bet you carry the constitution in your pocket.Sandra is gone and laid to rest and no words can bring her back,this great nation cant make her skip down the street again and hug her family,no friend of a friend cant talk her back,but what can be done is the person responsible for it ,and knows they did it ,and admit it ,can pay for it!!!SADANDDISMAYED go register yourself with the police i bet your a borderline case just waiting to happen....
HopelovefAith
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April 19, 2009
I cannot even believe that anyone( sadanddismayed) could blame sandras poor mother,melissa is a disgusting an disturbed person who deserves to suffer for torturing a poor innocent little girl and tearing her away from her family.How are you even going to try and argue that MH isn't to blame, clearly there is sufficient evidence that proves otherwise... Not to mention, mh admitted it by saying it was just an accident. How sick are you to even be able to THINk MH is a "nice" person let alone say it.

Sandra and her family are in my prayers
ConcernedNeighbor
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April 19, 2009
Interesting....

From this article...

"Melissa Huckaby accuses John Huckaby of child abduction, domestic violence and alcohol abuse. John Huckaby denies the allegations."

Was he "shocked" when he heard the allegations against him as charged by his ex-wife?

momof3_40
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April 18, 2009
Dear Sad,

You are a nuts, too! You are blaming the mother of Sandra~saying if she would have kept her home this wouldn't of happen???WTF! Are you sick? Wow, who give a crap if MH'S daughter is beautiful, SANDRA WAS BEAUTIFUL, ALL children are beautiful! So, lets say she is innocent because your neighbor only knows the person she exibits ! You are a funny person! Lots of killers and rapist are so nice to the ones they don't want to kill or rape! Don't you know that? You are just ignorant!
Just*My*Opinion
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April 18, 2009
SadAndDismayed - I'm sad and dismayed at your comments. Sandra's mother didn't do this to her! MH DID and admitted it was her suitcase and that is was an accident. Admission of guilt - how can you defend her????

Besides, does anyone remember that they reported that she was involved in a past drugging of another child???

I do believe Johnny Huckaby should NOT be allowed access to his child. Whether or not MH is a liar , the COURTS took away his visitation and gave him 1/2 hour supervised visits for a REASON. They don't just take those rights away on a whim.

badattitude: I agree wih your comments on free speech wholeheartedly!!! My point earlier was not to say people aren't entitled to their opinions but there are so many silly conspiracy theories being thrown out there. Case in point? What horsesence wrote about this having something to do with a cult and the church, etc. I agree, something seems amiss with this "church" but until we know all the FACTS, lets just stick to what we all know right now and dispense with the ridiculous theories and conjecture.
justacitizen
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April 18, 2009
SadAndDismayed... your another prime example of what is wrong in this world.
Mommyof1
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April 18, 2009
sadAndDismayed

That is discusting. how dare you write a comment blamming the mother at a time like this. Are you listening to the news. It does not matter if her daughter is beautiful or not. SANDRA WAS BEAUTIFUL TOO AND ONLY 8 YEARS OLD!!!! How can they be wrong, she said it was her suitcase. she had a note in her driveway, " Cantu, WHitehall , Water. Then she swallowed 3 razor blades, too bad she did not succeed!!!! She said Sandra was friends with her daughter so Sandra trusted her!!! SO NOW SHE IS ARRESTED AND SHE TOLD THE COPS NOW IT WAS AN ACCIDENT, SO GO FIGURE SHERLOCK HOLMES, SHE DID IT SOME HOW, SO IS SHE STILL NICE, YOUR SO CALLED FRIEND KIDNAPPED RAPED, AN 8 YEAR OLD CHILD WITH A FOREIGN OBJECT. If you watched the video of Sandra skipping it looked like she was skipping home, then she stopped as it looked like someone hollered to her, betcha Melissa, Your sicko nice friend. Like we all said before that church is a little weird. AGAIN LITTLE SANDRA WAS BEAUTIFUL, SANDRA SANDRA, !!!!!!!!!!MH SHOULD OF KILLED HERSELF OR DONE WHAT SHE DID TO SANDRA TO HERSELF OR YOU MAYBE YOU WOULD OF FOUGHT HER OFF!!!!

Rest in Peace Sandra. God Bless Cantu and Chavez Family
SadAndDismayed
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April 18, 2009
my neighbor is friends with mellissa and used to go to church with her and i know that my neighbor loves her very much and her daughter and said that if sandras mother was watching her this would have never happened but i am not so sure. all of mellissas friends dont think she could do this and so it makes me wonder. i met her a cuple times at my neighbors house and she was quite and nice and her little girl is so bueatiful and its hard for me to believe that she did this too i think maybe the police are wrong and my neighbor and mellissas family are right and what about her little girl maddison she is so beuatiful. i dont know but my neigbor is sure she dint do this too
ConcernedNeighbor
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April 18, 2009
Was thinking we sure do have dysfunctional society, moral, judical, and justice.

Strength of rights and protections should go to the victims!

Not convicts who gets free room and board, food, medical treatment, education, do the victims get any of these previleges? So why are the prisoners mollycoddled?
jetsetterdude
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April 17, 2009
All of you posters. Say what you want about each other. The real matter here is that a major crime has happened. Let us not forget the life of a beautiful little girl has been extinguished at the hands of a twisted person. Let us just pray for her and her family in their time of sorrow. My family and I pray for them.
horsesence
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April 17, 2009
badattitude wrote I Am A Crackpot,A Hit Dog Always Howls
Mommyof1
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April 17, 2009
Who knows if what they say about her is ex is true as MH is a LIAR. The only truth I heard out of her mouth was it was her Suit case!!!, all the rest just lies!!! Her child is better off with her dad then any of her other family members or in foster care as I can see at this time. As people are saying they think others may be involved etc. I would not want her with that family. Like he said she is safe, RIGHT. Sandra wasn't!!!!!!!!!!!!!Then he said his daughter doesn't know anything about the case. She must have seen Sandra at her house, believe me 5 year olds are smart these days they know things if they happen, and it was even on here, that MH asked Sandra's sister to watch her while she went to the Church the day Sandra went missing, even though the grandmother was home. All I can say is Justice will be served. THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT, AND SHE WILL ROT LIKE THE PIECE OF DIRT THAT SHE IS. Atleast they still have their child, god bless her! The cantu Chavez Family do not have their Princess, do to this piece of trash!!!!!!!!!God Bless you Tracy's Angel!!!! From New Hampshire.
shelly13
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April 17, 2009
You are absolutley right that gossip is damaging. I don't think this constitutes as gossip, but more our theories of what may have happened and what seems to be strange about the facts that have been given so far.

We are curious beings and yes, curiosity did kill the cat...I think some of us are trying to be fairly responsible and others already want to hang her high. I'm sure the police have had the same questions we are all asking and are in fact looking at others even though they don't say so. This investigation would not be thorough and complete if they did not do so. I donot feel superior to the poloice at all. I have stated that I think they are doing a great job and we will find out the facts at the appropriate time.
badattitude49
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April 17, 2009
horsesence.....you are a crackpot


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