UPDATE: Tracy man dies after recruiting workout
by Justin Lafferty/TP news
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After a week in a coma, a Tracy man who was trying to make weight to join the U.S. Marines died Tuesday night from liver failure in a San Francisco hospital.

U.S. Marine Corps recruiters told Danny Ruf, 22, to drop 12 pounds to start basic training, according to Tim Durbin, a family friend. Ruf, who weighed about 184 pounds, was being treated at San Francisco’s Pacific Medical Center for possible kidney and liver failure after a workout with two recruiters.

Durbin said he found out about the death in a text message from Ruf’s mother, Audrey Ruf, at about 9 p.m. Tuesday. Capt. Warren Leong of the Marine Corps recruiting station in Sacramento confirmed Ruf’s death this morning.

“We have launched an investigation to determine exactly what happened,” Marine Corps public affairs official Major Chris Logan said. “It’s a horrible situation; whether it be a current or future Marine, it’s always difficult when someone is injured.”

Logan said recruiters have stayed in touch with Ruf’s family. He would not comment on the death, saying the Marines are waiting until they have all the information necessary, but he confirmed that Ruf collapsed while working out at a local gym.

Tracy police spokesman Lt. Jeremy Watney said the department is not actively investigating this case. He said if any evidence of criminal activity is discovered, the police will investigate, but right now it looks like “just a bad accident.”

Durbin said Ruf wasn’t overweight, noting that his build was like that of “a little bulldog.”

A press release sent out by Marine Corps spokesman Jason Bortz identified Ruf as a member of the delayed-entry program.

“Our thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Ruf's family, and we are respecting their request for privacy,” Bortz said in the release.

Ruf signed up for the Marines a couple months ago after he was laid off from his job as a mechanic for General Motors when the company folded. He played soccer for two years at Tracy High School and graduated in 2006. Relatives and friends described Ruf as a caring guy who would do whatever he could to help out.

“Despite many challenges in his life, Danny always remained positive and he was determined to make the best of any situation,” his grandparents, Pius and Hildegard Ruf, said in an e-mail. “Once he set his goals, he would achieve them, often exceeding everyone’s expectations.”

Aside from hanging out with friends and family, Ruf enjoyed taking out his all-terrain vehicle and going off-roading.

“If I ever needed anything, he was right there for me,” said Jennifer Haggerty, a friend of Danny’s. “I think this was not his time. He was supposed to live longer than this. … He was there for his family and friends all the time.”

Durbin said Ruf weighed in on July 13 and started his workout the next day. Two Marine Corps recruiters were with him a local gym, running him on the treadmill and trying to have him sweat off some weight in the sauna. Durbin said the plan was for him to lose the 12 pounds by Monday, when he was supposed to enter basic training.

One of the recruiters noticed Ruf looked lightheaded during the workout, Durbin said, and asked him to sit on a bench and rest.

The recruiters left the room and returned to find Ruf unconscious. He was taken to Sutter Tracy Community Hospital by ambulance and was later transferred to Pacific Medical Center. According to Durbin, when paramedics got to Ruf, his body temperature was 108 degrees.

Durbin said the workout happened at the In-Shape Health Club at 101 S. Tracy Blvd., but the gym’s assistant general manager, Lea Leonardo, said it wasn’t at her location. The only other In-Shape Health Club in Tracy is at 239 W. 11th St. That gym’s general manager, David Sefton, said he could not discuss anything regarding Ruf’s workout or death.

Crystal Tolle, a friend of Audrey Ruf, said she has started an account at Bank of America at 3120 W. Grant Line Road to pay for the funeral. A Bank of America customer service representative confirmed the checking account for a funeral in Danny Ruf’s name and said the branch can be reached at 839-8159.

“He was a great kid and he had a good head on his shoulders,” Tolle said. “(He was) very polite, very concerned about his mom and everybody else.”

• Contact Tracy Press reporter Justin Lafferty at 830-4269 or jlafferty@tracypress.com.
comments (17)
« angelrom wrote on Monday, Jul 27 at 07:13 PM »
Audrey - you worked for me for a few years at 2 different companies. You and I talked often about Danny and I KNOW how much love, attention, energy, and dedication you had for your son and I know that he was your world! I cannot even begin to imagine how devastated you must be and I am SO SO SO SORRY! AUDREY, PLEASE KNOW THAT MY THOUGHTS, PRAYERS AND MY DEEP HEARTFELT sorrow is with you> I will try to get in touch with you just to be available if you ever need me. My loving thoughts, Angela
« angelrom wrote on Monday, Jul 27 at 07:08 PM »
« ConcernedNeighbor wrote on Sunday, Jul 26 at 10:52 AM »
My heart goes out to the Ruf family, seems the good ones gets taken before their time. May you, Audrey, find comfort in the memories you have of Danny.

Such a sad and painful read, hope the investigation will show the whole story of Recruitor's practice?

My first thought, about the weight, is that they usually lose it during basic training???
« bristol wrote on Saturday, Jul 25 at 01:17 PM »
I WISH I KNEW WHO YOU WERE TO BE LITTLE A MAN WHO HAS JUST LOST HIS LIFE AND CANNOT DEFEND HIMSELF. ONE OF OUR TEN COMMANDMENTS IS THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO PUBLICLY DISGRACE HIM.I CANNOT BELIEVE HOW NIEVE AND SHALLOW PEOPLE CAN BE IN TRACY. DANNY OUR LOVE MAY YOU REST IN PEACE. HE HAS BEEN TAKEN FROM OUR LIVES WITH A GREATER PURPOSE AND TO HAVE ETERNAL LIFE. AS YOU SIT THERE WRITING SUCH HURTFUL WORDS. HE HAS STARTED HIS ETERNAL LIFE AND BLESSED AND STILL GIVING. DANNY WAS EVEN PURPOSE DRIVEN IN OUR LIFE HERE. HE WAS ABOUT TO GIVE HIS WHOLE HEART, BODY AND SOUL TO OUR COUNTRY FOR ALL OF US TO SAFE AND FREE.HE IS THE HONORABLE ONE.IF YOU DIDNOT NO GOD HAS A MASTER PLAN FOR ALL OF US BEFORE WE ARE EVEN BORN-GODS PURPOSE FOR US IS SO MUCH GREATER THAN YOU COULD IMAGINE.IF YOU ONLY LET HIM IN.AS A MOTHER OF WHOS DAUGHTER GAVE US THE OPPORTUNITY TO MEET HIM IN OUR HOME.MY HUSBAND AND I WERE TRULY BLESSED AND HONORED TO HAVE MET HIM. HE WAS AND INTELLIGENT,DRIVEN,CARING,COMPASSIONATE AND EXTRORDINARY INDIVIDUAL. DANNY WAS OUR GIFT FROM GOD. YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL TO EVEN HAD THE CHANCE TO MET SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON. DANNY IN OUR FATHERS HOUSE THERE ARE MANY MANSIONS FOR GREATNESS. I HOPE YOURS WILL BE NEXT TO MINE. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU, BUT OUR HOPE IS TO MEET ONCE AGAIN.
« momof4kids wrote on Saturday, Jul 25 at 01:12 PM »
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO THIS YOUNG MANS MOTHER,HES IN HEAVEN NOW WATCHING OVER YOU!EVEN KNOW THERE ARE NO WORDS TO COMFORT YOU MAY YOU KNOW THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE OUT HERE THAT CARE! GOD BLESS YOU!
« Keston wrote on Friday, Jul 24 at 01:02 PM »
No relationship or persons are two dimensional and Danny’s relationship with his Mom was multifaceted and complex. Danny’s life wasn’t easy, but he truly loved and felt the need to protect his Mom VERY MUCH, when he was little he was her EVERYTHING, she loves him VERY MUCH and I know she will never get over this.

Recently I posted some very awful things about Danny’s Mom which I deeply regret. While I do not regret what I posted about Durbin, my timing and remarks were highly inappropriate and I want to publicly apologize to Audrey. I had read something in the above article with Durbin’s comments, knowing how Danny felt about Durbin, it struck a nerve with me and I lashed out and I am ashamed.



I was very close to Danny and I am so grateful that I had that time with him. I have known him since he was four years old; My first memory of Danny was when I got him a jibber jabber for his 5th Birthday and he promptly “bonked” me on the head with it!! Last month he went camping with us and kept challenging me to flip him off an inner tube while jet skiing, he said I couldn’t, but I did! Danny was a friend to all kinds of people, he could relate with anyone, heck, he even taught this 43 year old woman how to play beer pong!

As Danny grew up, he truly became such a “great guy”, just last month I was bragging about him to an aquaintance who knew him as a little kid. I am in shock and disbelief that he is gone and I will miss him more than I could possibly say.

« nicolec823 wrote on Friday, Jul 24 at 11:01 AM »
Danny you will be missed, greatly! Loved your smile, and your "Hey Lady"! You will forever be in our hearts and mind. You were taken from us way too soon, Rest in peace buddy!

My prayers and thoughts are with his family.
« Tracymomplus5 wrote on Friday, Jul 24 at 10:24 AM »
Glad to see the Marines are investigating, is the Tracy P.D. doing a "death" investigation? If it were the Mayor's son would they?
« lookforjack wrote on Friday, Jul 24 at 10:08 AM »
As a former Marine I feel sad for this young man.

I wonder if he had a physical yet? Maybe if he had it might have caught some underlying condition?

Even while I was in the Marine's over 20 years ago. There was this really ridiculous requirement that you have a certain body build. Drill Instructors put me on a diet while I was in boot camp even though I wasn't over wieght. So they kind of take things into there own hands. They didn't like how I fit the uniform. Rather then bulk up the upper body they choose to make me diet. Well when I first got there I could pass the physical fittness test. But after two weeks on the D.I. imposed diet plan I was too weak to even do one pull up. Weeks later after being taken off the diet I got back up to the 8 dead hang pull ups that I came in with. And by the last P.F.T I was up to 20 and scored a 300 P.F.T. which was the best score you could get.

These people are not trained dietitians. There needs to be an overhall of the recruiting and instuction system.

Not everyone fits into there little mold.

But I doubt that will happen.

My condolenses to the family.
« anonymous wrote on Friday, Jul 24 at 09:52 AM »
New info on danny's fund.

Account # 2542070749

Thanks so much to everyone who has been able to help.
« minniem08 wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 10:15 PM »
danny was an amazing guy and this is a tragedy. i dont believe it is right to post things about him with such certainty that it was diet pills or family issues that made him "escape" to the marines to cause his own death. he was a wonderful person and this is the time to mourn for this terrible loss. not to discuss what he did wrong or whatever else. he isnt some popstar that needs basically tabloids about his death. he was 22 years old, way too young for anyone to go..... i agree with let the healing begin. because that will take some time for all of us who knew him.

R.I.P. DANNY. YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED....
« timmyd wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 02:57 PM »
We should all wait till the evidence of what happened is in and refrain from idiotic speculation about "family" problems from people with agendas and mental illness. There is a mother hurting like none of us can imagine that needs love, healing and a community hug. There is a time and place for everything. Let the healing begin....
« Nicki2 wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 12:30 PM »
valued wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 11:07 AM »

There is more to this then what is being written about. Danny worked out and went to the gym, getting on a tredmill and getting on the bike for a total of 30min wont make you pass out. And it definitely wont cause kidney failure. I had seen Dan the day before he went to the gym and he looked bad, I even asked him if he was ok. Dan told me he had almost passed out that tuesday running with friends, and that they had even asked if he was ok. Before Dan even entered the gym that Wednesday im sorry to say he was already dead. Dan had problems with his family as we have read and even if he picked the Marine Corp as an escape it was his decision. He could have picked other branches but he chose the Marine Corp to better his life. I support the Marine Corp 110% its a shame that some people are making the USMC look bad, when these heros are the ones that fight for our country and our freedom. To the recruiters in tracy, im sorry this happened when all you were doing was watching him workout! Dan most of been on some diet pills or something else that damaged him so badly. Dan may you rest in peace.

I read both articles, but I didn't read where it stated he was having family problems and he ran to the Marines to escape. First of all, you need to wait until an autopsy is done before you start slandering this man saying he must have taken diet pills or something else to hurt his body.

My condolences to the family, may you find the peace you need to deal with your tragedy
« valued wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 11:07 AM »
There is more to this then what is being written about. Danny worked out and went to the gym, getting on a tredmill and getting on the bike for a total of 30min wont make you pass out. And it definitely wont cause kidney failure. I had seen Dan the day before he went to the gym and he looked bad, I even asked him if he was ok. Dan told me he had almost passed out that tuesday running with friends, and that they had even asked if he was ok. Before Dan even entered the gym that Wednesday im sorry to say he was already dead. Dan had problems with his family as we have read and even if he picked the Marine Corp as an escape it was his decision. He could have picked other branches but he chose the Marine Corp to better his life. I support the Marine Corp 110% its a shame that some people are making the USMC look bad, when these heros are the ones that fight for our country and our freedom. To the recruiters in tracy, im sorry this happened when all you were doing was watching him workout! Dan most of been on some diet pills or something else that damaged him so badly. Dan may you rest in peace.
« Crazyjls wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 11:00 AM »
My thoughts and Prayers go out to his Mom Audrey. I'm so sorry for you lost. Danny was a great Son and a Friend. I just wanted you to know that I'm here for you if you need anything.

RIP Danny!
« snlmac wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 09:05 AM »
Our thoughts and prayers are with his entire family and friends. This is a horrible situation and may they find some peace. What a great man to go through all this for our country. He is already a hero. RIP
« ConcernedParents wrote on Thursday, Jul 23 at 01:15 AM »
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Danny Ruf, a young man who was trying to better himself and serve our country. May he rest in peace.

ConcernedParents


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